Jaskier and Radovid cross paths with each other in episode 1 as the famed songwriter is in the midst of a very public falling out with his current paramour, Vespula, after she has heard about his philandering deeds with “many different people.”

Source: https://centralrecorder.com/jaskiers-bisexuality-for-netflix-makes-sense-but-the-fans-of-jaskier-wont-be-happy/

Starring alongside Joaquin Phoenix, she looks just as delightfully unhinged as one would expect of The Joker's infamous paramour.

Source: https://gamerant.com/joker-folie-deux-reveals-first-look-lady-gaga-joaquin-phoenix/

Steenburgen gets a little shine, too, in a spicy scene with a former paramour who (sadly) just serves to remind her that she loves her husband back in the States.

Source: https://chicagoreader.com/film/review-book-club-the-next-chapter/

Still, people only know what their potential paramour has revealed about themselves on a first date.

Source: https://rapidcityjournal.com/lifestyles/robots-are-coming-for-your-love-life-it-s-all-about-finding-the-one/article_25524313-432e-5a5f-9e0d-94c7ae10200b.html

This familiar trope has appeared in all manner of sitcoms as characters who are romantically challenged fail to convince their skeptical friends that they found love with an unseen paramour who conveniently lives far, far away.

Source: https://screenrant.com/that-90s-show-updates-canada-girlfriend-sitcom-trope-subversion/